Have you ever put your foot in your mouth when talking to a group of people? You’re not alone. Many people wish that they could go back in time and fix a communication faux pas. Since that isn’t an option, it’s important to be aware of the phrases to avoid in conversations. Commit them to your memory and you’ll be eloquently moving in social circles in no time!

Appearances

Commenting on someone’s appearance can be the one of the trickiest conversations to navigate. Here are some common phrases to avoid:

• “You look tired.”
• “You’ve really lost a lot of weight!”
• “You look good for your age.”
• “I could never wear what you’re wearing.”

These comments sound negative despite their intentions. Instead of the above, try something more open such as “You look great!”

Workplace

When we are work we should always strive to be as professional as possible. This is why we should be careful with our wording so it is not misconstrued. Avoid phrases such as:

• “That’s not my job.”
• “I have a stupid question.”
• “I don’t have time to talk to you.”

Instead of seeming uncooperative, simply ask if the task at hand is a priority and go from there. Also, don’t undermine yourself by lacking the confidence to ask questions – sometimes over communication is the best policy.

Job Interviews

This is when we want to make our best impressions. Avoiding the following statements will help connect with our interviewer and land our dream job.

• “My current boss is an overbearing nightmare.”
• “Do you think I’d fit in here?”
• “What are the hours and vacation policy?”

Try to be as professional as possible by being positive and demonstrating a genuine interest in the company. This will get you farther than bad mouthing and focusing on the minor details.

Pregnancy and Babies

Unfortunately, this is one of the most common communication faux pas. Stay away from the following blunders to evade socially awkward moments!

• “Are you pregnant?”
• “Are you planning on breastfeeding?”
• “Were your twins natural?”

The best advice in these situations is to keep your mouth closed. If you do know that a woman is pregnant use discretion when asking questions to respect her privacy.

Singles

It’s often uncomfortable for a single person to be surrounded by couples. In order to make them feel as positive as possible, steer clear of the following:

• “I never liked him anyway.”
• “How can someone like you still be single?”
• “You’re never getting married?”

Sometimes the best approach to a conversation is bringing up common topics instead of putting someone on the spot.